TIMES WHEN YOU WERE WRONG ABOUT THE WORLD!
1. HOW YOU TREAT PEOPLE, DEFINES WHO YOU ARE
When we were child, we were always taught to be good and never be bad. There was nothing wrong with it, but what created a problem was that to teach us what is good and what is bad. Kids who were obedient were good, kids who disobeyed their elders were bad, always. people who go to church or temple were always good and people who some or drink were bad! Even, we considered ourselves right to judge them this way.
Many of us still accept each and everything we were taught as a kid and actually pretend to ignore the reality. In this case, we are wrong about the world.
Most of the kids we considered bad at that time have got to do meaningful things in their life. Consider an instance of someone in your life whom you considered evil (because you were taught) and definitely any incident of your life (happened or will happen) will prove you wrong. You were wrong about them.
2. THEIR MONEY NEVER CAME FROM ANYBODY'S EXPENSE
If we do not possess it, either we just crave for it or pretend that we don't like it. Isn't so? Things which are meant for us are either possessed or hated by us. Consider the biggest trauma, BEING RICH. What we know about rich people, they are cruel, they grab more than they deserve, they cheat, they are rude or unhappy, so being rich isn't that good (because that reduces our efforts). This is exactly what we are taught apart from a few merits about elites.
Growing up without enough money is one of the biggest problems many of us may have, and our efforts to become rich gets blurry vanished when we think that someone got rich by driving someone else to poverty. Another time, you were wrong about them.
You see people who are actually rich and successful, they have created their wealth out of something that never existed before. It didn't come at anybody's expense.
3. THEY NEED HELP, WE OFFER JUDGEMENT
Whenever someone comes to you with their problems, what your first reaction be? Write yours in comments, but it would have definitely been "Why you are always getting into trouble?', "How can you do that?", "Why you are so dumb?" and what not. No matter we have the solution or not, we are naturally supposed to overreact and blame. Isn't that so?
You were again wrong about them. Don't forget that they came to you with the hope of help and not for being judged. So they are supposed to be helped. Just say and believe, "We will fix it." Some problems have solution, some doesn't need to be solved, it's that simple. Here, all you need to be empathically listen them, that's the best gift.
4. THEY ALWAYS BE THEMSELVES, DON'T OVERTHINK
We see many people everyday and there might be some things that impress us about them, we feel to be like them. Take one of the biggest example that introverts usually face. They see the people who interact easily, have fun, laugh out loud, sing, dance and make friends easily. And this makes introverts be like them.
But you are thinking wrong about them, they are actually being themselves and that's why they are being liked by everyone. Try it with yourself, dare to be whatever you are and see the things fall into place. You may not be liked by everyone but even that will not bother you.
5. NO ONE KNOWS WHAT'S RIGHT, THEY JUST MAKE IT
You may always find yourself struggling, right? But always you are not struggling to get something you want, but you are struggling to see the same with someone else, that bothers you. You may feel, that everyone around you know exactly what they want and are sure about everything they are doing and thus they are happy and successful.
Here you are again wrong about them. The people you are observing are not ideal humans. They are already like you. They too do make dumb decisions, silly mistakes and stupid actions. They do fail, get embarrassed, they themselves are figuring out the things in their life. And they happy because they are moving forward instead of just observing.
No one knows it before that it will work or not. Just do it anyway.
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