FEAR SHOULD MOTIVATE, NOT PARALYZE!
Another name of life is problem, which is the main cause of the fear. We all have our fears. Fear of failing, fear of height, fear of loosing people, fear of taking risks, fear of speaking, fear of driving, fear of dark or any other phobia.
Many of our fears motivate us, other do paralyze. People who find motivation in their fears, are hereby successful in the things they do, others who find fears too scary end up doing nothing other than being scared. They aren't even aware that why results are important to them, because they didn't dare to experience them.
However, the question that arises here is, how to get motivated by your fear instead of getting paralyzed?
It's bit easy, DO THE THINGS!
Let us go reverse from here to find the right strategy used, from the success to the process. People who are successful have good experiences, these good experiences comes from improving the mistakes, you will be able to improve the mistake if you will make a mistake, that is your bad experiences and that comes from doing the things, obviously.
Whenever you face the fear, you always have two choices, either just take one more step, fight from it, have some courage and just make it, here the fear has motivated you to be strong and confident about the scary things, the next time, the same fear will never be a barrier for you.
However, for the other option, if you stop and do not dare to take the step, you keep staying at the same place without even knowing the results, curious and scared! This doesn't show that you even tried of not, everything is meaningless if you do not even try. Here, the fear of failing stops you from taking that step.
Fear is not always negative abstract, it's upon your vision, what you consider it to be. Don't leave yourself with other option, otherwise you will be paralyzed. Fear of failing in a competition makes you prepare and practice for the competition, this is motivation. But if you let the same fear affect your mental health or cause you anxiety, then you aren't safe here! Don't allow it to affect you!
After all, it's all your choice. CHOOSE WISELY!
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